Self Blame

How often have you blamed yourself for a series of events? For the pain and suffering of others? For an unwelcome outcome? How often have you felt you were the cause of all that happened?

Remember that you are a part of the All. You are connected to the All and any lessons learned are learned by the All. Remember that energy ebbs and flows as the waves of the ocean between and amongst the All. This inter-connectedness is designed so that knowledge and learning encompass more than just one soul. Your lessons are inter-twined among each other. That is the way of the Universe.

For this reason, we ask you to understand the power of your thoughts, your words and your deeds. You are often the catalyst for change, regardless of your intentions. There is a tendency to self-judge if events, from your perspective, appear to cause much pain and suffering. Yet, in reality, there is no judgment, only forward movement from lessons learned along the path.

Remember that the purpose of your existence on this plane is the collection of knowledge for the All. Every moment of every day has a potential for knowledge to be gained. It is up to each and every individual how they attain that knowledge, how they react to the situation. Do you respond in fear or in love?

Rather than cast yourself as the perpetrator of pain and suffering, step back. Review the situation from a more detached level….from our level of view. Remove all emotion from the slate and observe how the situation unfolds.

You may have been a catalyst, but perhaps that was needed to begin the series of events that followed. You may have been the messenger or the benevolent instigator in an event that at first glance appears to be tragic or negative. However, this event is an opportunity for learning, for knowledge and it is the choice of all affected as to how they will respond. Will they point fingers and blame or will they step out of the emotion, roll up their sleeves and help each other over the rough terrain? Everyone has free will. There are many possible outcomes and each possibility has different lessons attached to it.

Do not blame yourself. Take responsibility for your actions, indeed. But remember that the lesson, the opportunity for knowledge is an individual choice for all involved. Be pure in your intent. Know that each and every one of you has one of us whispering in your ear. All are loved. All are offered guidance. All are on a path towards the same destination.

Walk in light and in love. Honor your place in the world and in the unfolding of knowledge for the All. You are a part of a Universal web of connection. You are surrounded by light and by love as is everyone else around you. Allow the fear to dissolve and step into the light. All will eventually arrive at the same destination.

Your actions provided an opportunity for change. You have done your part. Learn your lessons from the situation and allow others to do the same. Do not fear the outcome for that has not yet come into being. The only moment is the NOW and in this moment you are loved, you are light and you are One.

Allow joy to fill your being once again. Be present in your heart. Feel the love that surrounds you. It is always there in your heart.
Breathe in and breathe out.
Only love.

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9 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Deborah Oster Pannell
    Mar 14, 2013 @ 21:50:29

    Thanks for this. So often, these messages seem to come at just the right moment. 🙂

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    • the_tovarysh_connection
      Mar 14, 2013 @ 22:10:59

      Honestly, I thought this post was for me as I’ve been going through a rough patch. But as always, I’m not the only one for which these words resonate. May we all help each other walk past the self-blame and into the light.

      Reply

  2. Deborah Oster Pannell
    Mar 14, 2013 @ 22:21:00

    “Remember that energy ebbs and flows as the waves of the ocean between and amongst the All. This inter-connectedness is designed so that knowledge and learning encompass more than just one soul. Your lessons are inter-twined among each other. That is the way of the Universe.”

    There it is…

    Reply

  3. jmgoyder
    Mar 14, 2013 @ 22:21:43

    Brilliant – thank you.

    Reply

  4. Swimming In The Mud
    Mar 15, 2013 @ 14:47:14

    And who doesn’t need to hear something like this every once in a while? 🙂

    Nicely put, and somewhat soothes the self-blaming soul. I say somewhat because it’s just something that seems to need repetition to infiltrate the mind. Thanks for being the deliverer of this important message of love.

    Reply

  5. Paul Schlosser
    Mar 16, 2013 @ 09:52:18

    “Self Blame” was definitely timely for me!

    Reply

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