Worthiness

When is a person worthy of your love? Must they act a certain way in order to be acceptable of love?  If they do something to harm you or others, does that make them unlovable?  Are YOU worthy of love, from yourself and others?  What does one have to do in order to be loved?

How often has someone acted in a certain way that you find unacceptable?  You feel that they are too harsh, too selfish, too cruel.  You have all experienced this, we know. For everyone is not at the same level of growth here on this plane.  But if everyone was at the highest level of growth, then there would no longer be a need to exist on this plane.  These different levels of being are your avenues for personal growth.  How could you possibly grow if your life and everyone in it was perfect in every way?  It is in times of struggle, times of confrontation, times of adversity, when you can see how far you yourself have come on your learning plane.  These times are the litmus test for you.  These times are the opportunities to observe and reflect upon your own actions or reactions towards your fellow man.

If someone is not acting in what you perceive as a ‘loving’ way towards you, how do you respond?  This is, indeed, the more important question. Not how that person has acted towards you. But how you have responded.  For as we have mentioned before, all are on their own path to knowledge. And not everyone is at the same level as you.  The task for you is not to react negatively towards this person. But, no matter what, to act in love towards them.  Of course, if there is physical harm or continued attack, be it emotional, psychological, or physical, you remove yourself from them.  But how do you respond?

 You are only responsible for your actions, not those of anyone else.  Can you reach a place of forgiveness and acceptance that this is where they are on their path?  Can you get to a place where you can see that in these interactions, they are the teacher and you are the student?  These interactions are opportunities for you to grow. By raising your own energies, as we have told you how to do. And not coming down to the level at which they are vibrating.   Can you get yourself to a place where you can honestly thank them for the lesson they have passed on to you?

 For each and every person who crosses your path offers you an opportunity to grow. They are your teachers on this plane, as you are theirs.  And each and every one is worthy of your love and gratitude.   We do not expect you to come to this place of forgiveness immediately.  It is a process and we are here to help you with that process.  Just ask us for help.  Ask us to help you to step back and view these interactions from a higher plane. To see more clearly what is really happening.  And slowly you will begin to understand how this school of life is here to teach you.

 You are ALWAYS worthy of our love. Even during those times of struggle. When you cannot rise above the human condition to see things clearly.  Especially during those times. You are always worthy of our love. As all here on this plane are worthy of yours.   If you stumble in this process, and we know you will, we are there to gently pick you up, dust you off and help to you to move forward.  For we KNOW you. Better than you know yourselves.  And you always have our love and support.  Always.

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7 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. NehaMendirattaKhullar
    May 27, 2012 @ 15:33:53

    It is hard to implement but what’s life without a challenge?

    xx Neha

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  2. judithatwood
    May 28, 2012 @ 07:59:23

    You just would not believe how much I needed to hear this today! Thank you so much.

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  3. delajus
    Jun 03, 2012 @ 16:23:13

    I have recently discovered this blog, and I am so grateful. This post in particular is extremely helpful to me today and I’m sure it will be helpful through all the days to come. If there is anything I struggle with, it is forgiveness. But I’m learning! Thank you so much.

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